pamamanhikan
pamamanhíkan with stress marks
formal visit to ask for a bride's hand
Usage Note
Pamamanhikan is the formal visit where a man and his family call on the woman's family to ask for her hand in marriage, traditionally bringing food and gifts. It remains an expected step before a Filipino wedding, where the two families plan the ceremony together.
Examples
" Dumating ang pamilya ng lalaki para sa pamamanhikan. "
Natural Translation
The man's family arrived for the pamamanhikan.
Literal Translation
Arrived the family of man for the formal-visit.
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