damay
damáy with stress marks
help; sympathize; involve
Usage Note
Damay has a dual nature: it can mean compassionate involvement — 'nakikiramay' (to offer condolences) — or being unwillingly dragged into a situation — 'huwag akong idamay' (don't involve me). Filipino communal culture prizes the first sense; the second appears in disputes where someone protests being unfairly blamed or entangled.
Examples
" Salamat sa iyong damay. "
Natural Translation
Thank you for your sympathy.
Literal Translation
Thanks in your sympathy.
" Salamat sa inyong damay. "
Natural Translation
Thank you for your sympathy.
Literal Translation
Thanks in your (plural) sympathize.
" Sa oras ng aming kalungkutan, hindi namin malilimutan ang damay ng mga kapitbahay at kaibigan. "
Natural Translation
In our time of grief, we will not forget the compassion of our neighbors and friends.
Literal Translation
In time of our sadness, not by-us will-forget the sympathy of the neighbors and friends.
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